Would You Rather: Always be slightly awkward or Always be slightly too intense?
Would you rather Always be slightly awkward or Always be slightly too intense? The choice between "Always be slightly awkward" and "Always be slightly too intense" is really about which kind of discomfort you can tolerate in public. What does "Always be slightly awkward" actually feel like up close? Not in the abstract, but in the Tuesday afternoon version of it. The version where the initial thrill or shock has worn off and you are just living with it. That is where the real test of this choice lies. The social angle adds another layer because these questions are never purely personal — they ripple outward into how you relate to others. Now turn the lens toward "Always be slightly too intense". This option carries its own logic, its own trade-offs. Where the first choice offered one kind of transformation, this one offers another. The people drawn to it tend to value different things — perhaps stability over novelty, or perhaps a different kind of risk. Within the social space, this option might actually be the harder one to live with, even if it seems simpler on the surface. Here is where it gets personal. The choice between "Always be slightly awkward" and "Always be slightly too intense" is not really about the options themselves. It is about what you are afraid of. Some people fear losing control. Others fear being trapped. The 7,249 people who have voted on this.